Dear GhanaWeb,
I’ve been dating a man for 7 years. Everything was going well in the relationship. I loved him deeply, and I thought he did too. We both took care of each other, and everyone around us envied our relationship, saying we were perfect together and inseparable.
Recently, I noticed he’s been distant around me, but I thought I was overthinking it. Months ago, a close friend of mine called to tell me that she had seen my boyfriends wedding pictures on a social media page belonging to another woman whom my friend believed was his wife.
I never for once thought he could cheat on me, even though he changed towards me. I was angry when I found out he had married another woman.
I was very angry and in pain; I cried. I didnt know what to do. I almost lost my life in the process because I couldnt handle the pain he put me through.
I decided to make him mad. I went to places, and the thought of doing something to him made me feel a lot better.
At some point, I even wanted to let it go, but then I saw him post about his wife on Facebook. That got me angrier, so I went to make him go mad.
A priest gave me something and told me to say anything against him on the item, afterwards throw it away and wait for seven days to see the results.
Honestly, I wasnt even sure the thing would work. I just did it and forgot about it. On the 7th day, I had a dream where I saw him naked on the streets. When I woke up, I called his phone, but nobody answered.
I kept calling his line for three days before his wife answered, and I introduced myself as an old friend from school, wanting to speak to him.
The wife said he was sick, but didnt mention he had gone mad. After about a week, I called again to check on him. That was when she mentioned that he was behaving strangely and had been admitted to the psychiatric hospital.
I called again later, and the wife said his condition was getting worse. Its been 4 months now, and he still isnt getting better. Ive been very worried.
I got the chance to see him because his wife thinks Im just his friend; she has no idea we were dating.
The man looks really bad now. I feel sorry for him and want to reverse the things I have done, resulting in his madness.
I returned to the priest to reverse it, but he asked me to return the item I threw away; I cant find it.
Though I dont want the wife to know Im his ex, I wish to resolve the issue and make him okay. How do I go about this? What do you advise I do?
FG/AME
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