Entertainment

Kwaku Bonsam: “Juju may influence attraction, but relationships need real effort”

Traditional priest Nana Kwaku Bonsam has offered advice on marriage, intimacy, and self-care, urging couples to balance spiritual practices with practical effort in sustaining relationships.

Speaking on Let’s Talk on Joy Prime on Tuesday, May 5, he drew a distinction between genuine traditional healing and harmful practices, stressing that authentic healing should be restorative.

He described traditional healing as the use of “herbs, leaves, and roots to help people to put together”, adding that it should serve a natural and restorative purpose. He, however, condemned practices he considered harmful, stating that he has no tolerance for such methods.

“Traditional healing should restore and strengthen, not destroy,” he stressed.

Kwaku Bonsam also highlighted physical appearance and self-care as important but often overlooked aspects of relationships. He noted that some women seek spiritual intervention to regain their partners’ attention, but he often advises them to focus on improving their presentation instead.

“It’s not the spiritual charm; it’s the dressing, because he changed his hair, did the nails, wearing a sexy outfit,” he said.

According to him, when partners take care of their appearance, it naturally strengthens emotional bonds and helps sustain relationships.

However, he cautioned against relying on physical appearance alone in marriage, urging couples to prioritise character over looks.

“In marriage, you don’t look at the physical. Look at the heart,” he said, adding that “beauty fades with time while love and a good heart endure.”

He summarised his view with the phrase “use heart to marriage”, stressing that emotional connection is essential for long-term stability in relationships.

On intimacy, he described it as a critical component of marriage, noting that dissatisfaction in that area often becomes a major source of conflict between couples.

Nana Kwaku Bonsam concluded that a strong marriage requires effort on multiple levels—emotional, physical, and spiritual—emphasising self-care, character, and intimacy as key pillars of lasting relationships.

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Sports

May 9 Tragedy: Ghana Faces Debate Over Holding Celebrations on Memorial Day

Every nation has dates that are etched in the collective consciousness not by triumph, but by tears. In Ghana, May 9 is a day of profound stillness. It is the anniversary of the 2001 Accra Sports Stadium disaster—a tragedy that claimed 126 lives and left a permanent scar on the heart of the country.

As the entertainment industry grows and the national calendar fills with gala events and award ceremonies, a difficult question arises: Is it appropriate to celebrate national achievements on a day traditionally reserved for national mourning?

The Case for Solemnity: A Debt to the Fallen

The primary argument against holding a national music award ceremony on May 9 is rooted in reverence. For the families of the victims, this is not just a historical date; it is an annual reopening of a wound.

It may be argued that a “Red Carpet” atmosphere—defined by glitz, glamour, and high-energy performances—is fundamentally incompatible with the mood of the nation. In Ghanaian culture, respect for the dead and solidarity with the grieving are paramount. To pivot from a morning of laying wreaths to an evening of popping champagne can be seen as a “commercialization of amnesia,” where the pursuit of entertainment eclipses the duty of remembrance.

The Argument for Progress: Can Art Honor Memory?

On one side, it may be argued that the best way to honor those lost is to showcase the vibrancy of the nation they loved. Music, after all, is Ghana’s universal language of healing. The author is of the view that a national awards platform could actually amplify the “NeverAgain” message. By integrating a solemn tribute, a documentary segment, or a “Safety Message” into the ceremony, the event could reach a younger generation that may not fully grasp the gravity of the 2001 disaster. In this light, the event isn’t a distraction from the tragedy, but a bridge that carries the lessons of the past into the cultural expressions of the present.

The Verdict of Public Sentiment

Ultimately, the “fairness” of such a scheduling choice is judged by social contract. In Ghana, May 9 acts as a moral compass for stadium safety and institutional accountability. When a national event is held on this day, it risks being perceived as a signal that the nation has “moved on” before the lessons of the tragedy have been fully institutionalized.

While the logistical wheels of the music industry may demand specific dates, the cultural weight of May 9 disaster suggests that some silences are too loud to be filled with music.

To hold a celebration on this day is to walk a tightrope between progress and piety—a feat that requires more than just a tribute, but a deep, visible commitment to ensuring the tragedy remains at the forefront of the national conversation.

Ultimately, while this celebration is not illegal, it is culturally risky and creates a dilemma in some individuals like me who follow sport and entertainment.

This piece was written by Frank Appiah Kusi, PhD, Lecturer in Sport Management and Marketing at the School of Sports and Exercise Medicine, University of Health and Allied Sciences, Ho. Email: fkusi@uhas.edu.gh

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Ghana, Nigeria set for international boxing friendly ahead of 2026 Commonwealth Games

As part of preparations for the 2026 Commonwealth Games, the national boxing teams of Ghana and Nigeria will face each other in an international friendly in Accra.

The bilateral tournament, aimed at assessing boxers from both countries ahead of the Glasgow Games, will be held on Thursday, 7 May, at the Accra Sports Stadium.

In line with Commonwealth Games requirements, the bouts will feature seven male pugilists across the official weight categories, while the female team will include three boxers in the 54kg, 57kg, and 71kg categories.

The Nigerian contingent has arrived in Accra for the two-day event.

Ghana to face Nigeria in a friendly ahead of Commonwealth Games

The President of the Ghana Boxing Federation (GBF), Alhaji Dauda Fuseini, and the Chairman of the Nigeria Boxing Federation (NBF) Technical Committee, Babatunde Laguda, have both praised the initiative as a more effective way to evaluate the boxers’ readiness for the Games.

“The Ghana friendly tournament is truly the way to go at a time like this. As you know, our boxers are currently camping in Lagos ahead of the Commonwealth Games, and this international friendly will further expose them to a more competitive atmosphere,” Laguda added.

On his part, the NBF Vice President, Omonlei Imadu, said the federation would, in the coming days, confirm more friendly bouts with two other nations.

“As part of our camping ahead of the Glasgow Games, we are in the final stages of discussions with two other countries for friendly bouts. Our aim is to ensure the best possible preparation for our boxers before heading to the Games in July,” Imadu said.

Ghana to face Nigeria in a friendly ahead of Commonwealth Games

Boxing remains Ghana’s leading medal prospect at major international competitions, including the Commonwealth Games, with a total haul of 35 medals out of the country’s overall 62 medals since its first participation in 1951.

At the last Commonwealth Games held in Birmingham, England, boxing won three of Ghana’s five medals through Abraham Mensah (Bantamweight – 54kg) and Joseph Commey (Featherweight – 67kg), who both won silver medals, while Abdul Wahid Omar secured bronze in the Lightweight – 60kg category.

The 2026 Commonwealth Games will be held from Thursday, 23 July, to Sunday, 2 August, in Glasgow, Scotland.

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Business

TOR Turns to West African Crude to Boost Operations and Drive Recovery Plan

Tema Oil Refinery (TOR) is increasingly turning to crude oil from West Africa as part of efforts to restore stable operations and support a long-term recovery plan, its managing director has said.

Speaking to journalists from the Africa Extractives Media Fellowship in Accra, Edmond Kombat said discussions were ongoing on how Ghana’s crude oil allocation could be structured to guarantee the refinery a more consistent supply of feedstock.

He said the move formed part of wider efforts to reposition the refinery after years of financial and operational difficulties.

TOR has faced recurring challenges over the years, including shutdowns caused by crude shortages, ageing infrastructure and mounting debt. The refinery has periodically reduced output, raising concerns about its long-term viability and its role in Ghana’s downstream petroleum industry.

Despite several rehabilitation attempts, the refinery has struggled to maintain steady production and profitability.

Mr Kombat said current difficulties had also been worsened by external market pressures. He pointed to disruptions in global crude supply linked to tensions involving Iran and the United States, which he said had contributed to volatility in international oil markets.

He added that rising freight and shipping costs had increased the expense of importing crude oil, making refinery operations more costly and unpredictable.

TOR turns to West African crude as revamp efforts deepen

In response, TOR is prioritising crude supplies from West Africa, which Mr Kombat described as a more reliable and cost-effective option.

He said the strategy was intended to strengthen supply security and reduce the refinery’s exposure to global shipping disruptions and geopolitical risks.

Despite the challenges, Mr Kombat said management remained committed to a turnaround agenda focused on restoring operational stability, improving efficiency and rebuilding confidence in the refinery’s long-term sustainability.

He acknowledged that the recovery process would be difficult, but said practical steps were being taken to secure TOR’s future within Ghana’s energy sector.

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Environment

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